Oh Jenene. So sorry you are going through all this. You sure are going through a very large learning curve in a very short time, but it seems that you have all the help and support you need to get you through this. Like l said once before.....Take a big breath and move forward.
I hope that you'll get a chance soon to shows us an updated picture of your tank, as I'm sure its looking beautiful, and hopefully the clowns will be up the front.
Here's another one for you. 'What dosn't kill you makes you stronger'.
Good luck!